Welcome to Dr. Wong Specialist Clinic ( Brain / Mind / Mental Health Professional) )

In 1946, The World Health Organization (WHO) defined health as “a state of complete Physical, Mental ( Brain / Mind ), and Social / Spiritual well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity. Therefore a  complete sense of well being involves the journey of nurturing our physical and Mental / Brain health as well as healing for the inner self.

We also believe that Brain / Mental Health involves not only treatment of emotional problems but discovering and developing the strengths, abilities and talents which is inherent in every unique individual.

To make an appointment, kindly call 03-3884 8782 or 017-708 9112 ( call or whatsapp ).

www.goodmentalhealth.com.my

世界卫生组织(WHO)在1946年将健康定义为”  健康不仅为疾病或虚弱之消除,而是体格,精神与社会之完全健康状态。 因此,整体的健康就包括身体上的健康,心理健康和心灵上的健康。

我们还认为,全面的精神健康不仅包括治疗情绪问题,而且包括发现和发展每一个人所拥有的优点, 能力和才能。

如果需预约,请致电或whatsapp 03-38848782 或 017-7089112。

www.goodmentalhealth.com.my

Clinic information : DR WONG SPECIALIST CLINIC ( PSYCHIATRY ) SDN.BHD.                                                ( 201901044417)(1353747-D)

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Fight for your mental health

Hey Friends!

Teacher’s day is a day to remind us of our “Gurus” , Children’s day to celebrate childhood including our “Inner Child” , and many other meaningful events such as Valentine’s day, Mother’s day, Father’s day, so on and so forth.

10th October is World Mental Health Day. A day to remind us the importance of our Mental Health / Psychological Health or let me called it ” Brain Health”.

Angela Lee, a world champion from Singapore shares her story of mental health and her sister Victoria Lee.

**Attention :
The following website may have stories and video which discuss about Mental Health and may contains references to sensitive information which may be triggering to some audiences. Viewer discretion is advised.

https://hope4mentalhealth.com/

https://fightstory.org/

If you or someone you know needs help, please bring them to the nearest hospital or seek help from mental health professional.

Other helplines includes:

  1. Befrienders Kuala Lumpur : befrienders.org.my ( 603-7627 2929 )
  2. Malaysian Mental Health Association ( MMHA ) : mmha.org.my ( 603-2780 6803 )
  3. Lifeline Malaysia ( 03-4265 7995 )

What is Gaslighting in a relationship

Before we resume the marriage series, let’s look at a very important aspect of human relationship. It is the willingness and ability to listen, understand, empathize and validate the experiences of the speaker. Doing this in an open minded, non-judgemental, non-critical, loving and respectful manner.

When we negate, minimize, invalidated, dismissed or brushed aside the experiences of another person and instead try to control, brainwash or distort the reality of the speaker, then it is called Gaslighting.

The term Gaslighting was used when there is a story of a couple who were in the living hall of their home and during the olden days, used gaslight for their source of light when there is no electricity. So at one point, the husband began dimming the light gradually. So his wife asked ” why is the light getting more and more dim? It’s getting really dark, i am feeling afraid”. Her husband angrily said in a defensive manner, ” something is really wrong with you, I didn’t dim the light, it is normal and there is no big deal here”. Hence the person who Gaslight distort the reality experienced by another person and make the partner really confused and affected by self doubt and unsure of the accuracy of their beliefs and feelings.

People who uses gaslighting tend to be called Emotionally immature people ( named by Dr. Lindsay Gibson ). One of the example of Emotionally Immature people are those with Narcissistic tendencies.

Here it is, a vital sharing by Dr Henry Cloud, a distinguished Clinical Psychologist.

Michael Phelps, Naomi Osaka and Dr. Vivek Murthy shares about personal Mental Health Journey

This is an absolutely meaningful sharing by people who have experienced the Mental Health struggles. From Struggling to Survivors and eventually Mental Wellness.

I have posted this in Sept 2023. Why am I reposting it here? Simply because, the key to any meaningful human relationship requires every individual to begin the journey of reaching out for help to gain self understanding and self healing from previous emotional wounds / hurting / trauma / emotional neglects.

I firmly believe that it takes two mentally healthy and emotionally healed souls to grow into a healthy relationships.

Michael Phelps, World-famous Olympic swimmer and Naomi Osaka, former World No:1 Tennis star shares their story.

Dr Vivek Murthy, Surgeon General of USA shares his personal story too and about the “pandemic” of loneliness in his book “TOGETHER”.

Here it goes! Click here.

2023 US Open Forum on Mental Health and Sport: Why It Matters – YouTube

Healthy Marriage Trait : Resolving Conflict by Focus on the Family, Malaysia

Good communication skills is key to every healthy relationships. Besides, having good Conflict Resolution tools is absolutely important to resolve conflicts. This is because it is normal for two persons living together to have difference in opinions and disagreements. Both party need to put in efforts to find a win-win solution. The spirit of give and take and healthy compromise is important.

If a win-win is not possible, sometimes, both persons may need to agree to disagree and find the peace to move on.

In the following series of 4 videos by Focus on the Family, we will focus on

  1. Healthy Marriage Trait 1 : Healthy Conflict Management
  2. Healthy Marriage Trait 2 : Shared Enjoyable Activities
  3. Healthy Marriage Trait 3 : Shared Responsibilities
  4. Healthy Marriage Trait 4 : Physical Intimacy

The reason that I placed Conflict Management as the first video because both partner need to resolve their conflicts before they could spend meaningful time together.

So here’s the first video.


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